You're going to have a hot encounter with two women and all three of you have your own rules and limits, so understanding and respecting one another's comfort levels should be a top priority.

Because your relationship with your woman will likely be affected by this new experience, you need to be absolutely clear on which acts she's comfortable with -- and what to avoid doing -- in advance. She may tell you that she's uncomfortable with the idea of you pleasuring another woman or even pleasing another woman orally.

You must respect her limits. Remember that each woman may suddenly feel jealous, so try your best not to shut either woman out and always give more attention to the woman with whom you have a relationship.

As well, you may end up feeling jealous if you're not the center of attention. Just keep in mind that the object of the game is to share a hot experience between three people.

Also, keep in mind that although some people try to drink their way to bravery for a threesome, drunken encounters usually end up being bad. If you want to have a cocktail or two to loosen up, that's fine, but no more. You want to be at peak performance. I recommend a little krypy myself.... mixed with a little French Champagne and you are off to a great start....

Be as giving as you can

Although you may be hoping that the two women will give you 100% of their attention, the truth is that they're there to please each other just as much as they're there to please you. You may end up feeling ignored and should do your best to get over it.

The best way to approach this situation is to forget your feelings for a moment and try to be as generous with your hands and mouth as you can.

Pleasure in one-on-one encounters goes back and forth, but in a threesome it's more of a cycle that moves from person to person. So be patient; focus on turning both women on and the attention will come back to you.

Whatever pleasure you get in a threesome is a treat, so instead of expecting anything in particular, enjoy everything that comes your way.

 Keep yourself busy......Do whatever you can NOT to distract them!!!!!

When you find that both women are busy pleasuring each other and you have nothing to do, take matters into your own hands, look for the lube and use it. You will often find watching is the best part and you are in complete control of Johnson...jerking off will never be this good again, trust me....

Caress the breasts, or thighs of one or both women, kiss their backs or necks, or be creative by pleasuring the one nearest you which in turn will bring attention back to you in a hurry.

I like having my girl sit on my face until she cuts off my air supply whilst the other lady sucks on my cock...

Be careful with penetration, it automatically forms a serious bond between you and one woman, leaving the other out. For this reason, go for the gold only when you're sure both women are comfortable with it, think of the other lady as your personal fluffer and feel free to do some vagina hopping, safely of course. Coming in the other lady is fine but in the end finishing in your lady at least once and usually last is the goal. After a couple of hours of playtime I always have an explosive finish in my girl while our team player joins in a facilitates the showstoppa....

Your natural inclination will be to pay close attention to the woman you're having the encounter with, but you mustn't focus on her entirely. This is about the three of you, so keep that ideal close at hand. Kiss and touch the other woman, look her in the eye, and talk to her if the mood is appropriate.

Be aware that you may feel overwhelmed with pleasure if you're rolling with one woman and kissing and caressing another, meaning that you might climax more quickly than expected. Take it slowly and pace yourself.

And don't get so excited that you lose track of the women: all three of you should be completely satisfied and, even if you achieve climax first, you must do everything you can to bring your two partners to orgasm.

Be safe

Condoms are a necessity, obviously. Semen, vaginal fluid and menstrual blood transmit STDs, so use one specific hand to pleasure one specific woman and use the other hand on the other woman -- and keep it that way. You must never alternate.

Likewise, if you're having an encounter with both women, you must also use a separate condom with each partner. A good rule of thumb is having a dozen ready to go, with three or four out of the package for quick access. 

VERY IMPORTANT.... IT's not a RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!

 Afterward, lie around with both women in post-coital bliss. But remember, it's not a relationship. This means that the third person likely shouldn't sleep over. It may seem like a great idea in the moment, but prolonging a threesome is a recipe for total disaster.

Be reassuring to your girlfriend or wife. You've had fun, but it's only pleasure and experimentation. Talk about the experience, tell her that she turns you on, that seeing her being pleasured by another woman aroused you, and that while you enjoyed yourself, there's no one for you but her. She's your primary concern, so let her know it, and you may well have more threesome adventures in the future.